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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

What would it be if it was wasn't so????

Typical question i will ask:

had you ever been in relationship??
do you have friends around you OR MAYBE BEST FRIENDS that keep faith on you???



Have you came across in this above situation?
Yes? Good For you...
No? Well lets see whats best for u..

Well, have you ever think of taking both above in long term or short term?? or maybe depends?? Well, let see.

When you were in relationship(Friends,Family or Lover...etc etc), is either in the way of Love or Like.Agree?? Both came/fall in same way sometimes,or sometimes not. Right?? Well, if you want to keep all relationship in long term or maybe they "set" it in your precious "location", Respect is the key. agree??? Eventually it came before trust and our priority. right??
Well, if you do not respect they will eventually or slowly leave you for good. Experience that??? People usually thought,especially come typical old Chinese business man, they usually thought "friends" is just a pieces of paper, that you can drew them if you want them(take them for granted) and throw them if you does not want them(Ignore them if you dont need them). But what would happen if one day their own family could not help them maybe in financially or morally support. Who will they first think of?? Friends?

p/s Well , i have to agree that sometime friends have been a "pat" wan, or maybe "back stab" or maybe bla bla bla

Just imaging that you did not experience that above and just you and your family,relative or just yourself. Do you think your life will be more colourful? or maybe someone or a group that can exchange the same experience ,thought ,feeling and breakdown? Wouldn't it be great if there is more "people" that can share and experience the same thing with you? Well, you can choose. Yes , we have lousy friend sometimes. It still depends on Us to "see" them in which way or perhaps which categories they located in our life. They are just like us, learning how to grow, learning to be a better person. As usual they make mistake too. Who will guide them especially in socialize environment (when they make mistake)?? Impossible all of them going to "socialize classes" or bringing parents along... And who are them who guide us in socialize environment especially when we not intentionally making mistake on others??.. Got it?? ... No one born to be EVIL, or make it simple, no one want to be bad. but who are we to judge them if we make mistake like them too???

LIFE IS AWESOME IF WE THINK IT WAS AWESOME, AGREE?
same as
FRIENDS IS AWESOME IF WE THINK THEY ARE AWESOME.

Well, i bitch about friends . I bitch about people who came in my life. But do you?? Even though you bitch bout them it doesn't mean you haTE them. Agree?? So do same as them too.

Choose on how you see them.

Life will be good if we have no enemy around .
xp

















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